How We Hold Ourselves Back

How We Hold Ourselves Back

There's a vision of who you want to become.  

You know you aren't living up to your potential.  Why?  Each of us knows there are things we could be doing to close the gap between where we are and where we want to be.  And there are things we could stop doing that hinder our progress.  And yet we move through our days largely on autopilot, changing nothing and simultaneously hoping change happens on its own.

Gravity, Movement, And Maturity

Gravity, Movement, And Maturity

If we look at the origins of our movement as humans, it seems that our entire developmental journey is a quest to navigate the ever-present pull of gravity.  

We begin lying around a bit helplessly.  As we begin to engage more and more with our environment, looking around and reaching through space, we rock, roll, creep, and crawl.  Through some miracle of self-organization we learn to stand on two legs and walk about.  

Many folks in the somatic community look at this as the pinnacle of our motor development, but of course we know that our capacities are far more marvelous than that.  Somehow we learn to run, leap, take to the trees, and interact with the world in ever more complex ways.

Perception, Permission, And Possibility

I was struck by a question the other day:

How do we perceive what’s real?  What are the boundaries we live by, and what compels us to follow them?

It’s something I’ve been deeply curious about in my work as a somatic coach.  Very often I find that when someone develops more options for better movement, they unlock more options for better living.  When physical limitations are addressed, people have an expanded sense of themselves and of the life they live.

What Improv Teaches Us About Better Movement

I don't know about you, but I find something inspiring about improvisation.  Whether it's comedic a la Whose Line Is It Anyway or artistic in contact improv, the ability to create something from nothing and roll with the punches is incredible.

And I realized recently that the rules of improvisation have a direct link to moving better.  Which makes a bit of intuitive sense...after all, movement is a moment-to-moment improvisation (you can read all about how we make movement here

If you keep these improv rules in mind, you'll naturally start to expand what you're capable of in your movement practice.

I was reading a great little book called "Do/Improvise", and the author (Robert Poynton) laid out the rules in 6 words:

  1. Notice more.
  2. Let go.
  3. Use everything.

As soon as I read that, I was blown away.  That's exactly how we can improve our quality of movement too.  

Think about it:

  • When we improve our awareness (notice more), we boost the functioning of our nervous system and the organization of our bodies.  We enrich the sensorimotor dialogue between the central nervous system and the meaty bits of the body.
  • When we reduce excess tension (let go), our joints are free to move throughout their natural range of motion with more ease, and we reduce "neural noise" to further improve that sensorimotor dialogue.
  • When we move our bodies in natural, integrated ways (use everything) we find balance and symmetrical function without the complication of piece-meal approaches.  

So how do we put this into practice?  Try this:

1. Start lying comfortably on your back and tune in to what sensations you notice...where do you touch the ground?  Where is your body in space?

There's no need to fix anything at this stage of the game.  Just bring curious attention to what signals your body is giving you.

2. Settle into the ground.  Think of diffusing your weight throughout your body, seeping into the floor more and more.  Where can you release excessive holding in this position?  What can you let go of here?

3. Explore your body's natural movements from this position.  Can you roll from your back to your belly?  Can you reverse that?  Can you rock up to a seat?  These little movements are the building blocks of our more complex movements.

Notice more.  Let go.  Use everything.  These simple rules make a world of difference in your movement.  And if six words just feels like too many, Poynton gives us a condensed version as well...

Everything's an offer.

How will you respond?  

Everything around you contains an opportunity to move and be moved.  Every stair, every tree branch, every chance encounter with a friend in the coffeeshop...each is an offer for more movement and connection, both to our own bodies and the world around us.

How can you notice more?

What can you let go of?

How can you use everything?

Try it out, and reply back to let me know what you come up with.

What Is Movement For?

As movement culture seeps more and more into our broader culture, as we see more dance used in advertising, more acroyoga on Instagram, more attention brought to mixed martial arts, it's helpful to put in perspective: what is this movement stuff for?

On an organismic level it's how we interact with life around us.  It's how we get from A to B.  It's how we put food on the table.  It's how we embrace those closest to us.  It's how we stand our ground, lend a hand, and step into our own--our very language is saturated in movement!

The bulk of our movements are geared around keeping us safe and functional.  We hit the gym or yoga class to become--or stay--capable humans.  We intuitively understand that movement makes us better able to do the things we want to do on a day-to-day basis.  But too many of us see this as the end of the road.  We're functional, and we stay that way.  This is the world of fitness.

But movement is bigger than fitness.  If this is as far as we go, we miss out on real vitality.  We get by, but we're far from thriving.  Our movements are rote and robotic...our thinking soon follows suit.

At a raw, primal level we crave complexity and variety.  When we unbox ourselves and engage in myriad movements, we get to the root of what movement is all about.  We're geared to be creative, curious, and connected to the world around us...yes, even you.  But this is only possible when our baseline organismic functions are in place.  Creativity can't thrive when we're chronically overstressed or dealing with unresolved trauma.  Curiosity doesn't show up if we don't know how to function effectively in the world first.  Only when we've checked off safety and function are we capable of truly engaging with the world.  

This is what movement is all about.  It's about reclaiming comfort in and control over our bodies.  And at a certain point it's about swimming in the deep end, finding clarity in who and how we want to be, choosing what (literal) impact we want to make on the world.  It's your innate right.  Movement is how we get there.  Please don't settle for fitness.